As a coordinator, who works in helping children with autism to develop their academic and functional ability and behavior management,   I have had the opportunity to interact with many parents. As rewarding as this work is for me, it can be disheartening to come across parents who are in denial about their child’s condition. Despite clear symptoms such as difficulty maintaining eye contact or stereotypic patterns, the parents choose to ignore the reality of the situation. This denial can prove to be a significant obstacle in providing the child with the care and support they need to thrive.

As a parent, I can understand how difficult it can be to accept that your child has autism. It can be an emotional and overwhelming experience, and it is normal to feel a range of emotions such as shock, denial, guilt, and even anger. However, it is important to remember that accepting the diagnosis is the first step towards helping your child receive the care and support they need to thrive. With the right support and resources, parents can learn to manage their child's condition and help them reach their full potential.As a parent, I can understand how difficult it can be to accept that your child has autism. It can be an emotional and overwhelming experience, and it is normal to feel a range of emotions such as shock, denial, guilt, and even anger. However, it is important to remember that accepting the diagnosis is the first step towards helping your child receive the care and support they need to thrive. With the right support and resources, parents can learn to manage their child's condition and help them reach their full potential.

Studies have shown that parents who are actively involved in their autistic child's treatment and care are more effective in helping their child. When parents take an active role in understanding and managing their child's condition, they can better advocate for their child's needs, communicate with healthcare professionals, and provide a supportive and nurturing environment for their child's growth and development. Additionally, by building a strong support system and seeking therapy and counseling for themselves, parents can better manage the stress and challenges that come with caring for an autistic child. The love, patience, and dedication of parents can have a significant impact on their child's overall well-being and success.

Unfortunately some of parents are in denial of their child's autism can create significant challenges in providing effective treatment for the child. It is crucial for the parents to accept the diagnosis and work together with healthcare professionals to develop a plan to manage the child's condition. Without the support and cooperation of the parents, it can be challenging to provide the child with the necessary care and attention, which can have long-term consequences for the child's development and well-being. It is essential to raise awareness about autism and educate parents about the importance of early diagnosis and intervention to help their child reach their full potential.

There are several pieces of guidance that I would provide to parents of an autistic child:

1. Seek a diagnosis: The first step is to seek a professional diagnosis for your child's condition. This can help you understand the specific needs of your child and the best way to support them.
2.  Educate yourself: Once you have a diagnosis, it is essential to educate yourself about autism. This will help you understand your child's behavior and needs, as well as how to communicate with them effectively.
3. Get involved in therapy: There are many different types of therapy that can be beneficial for children with autism, such as behavior therapy or speech therapy. It is essential to work with a professional to determine the best therapy for your child's needs.
4. Build a support system: Caring for a child with autism can be challenging, and it is critical to have a support system in place. This can include family, friends, or support groups for parents of children with autism.
5. Practice self-care: It is important for parents to take care of themselves as well. This can include seeking therapy or counseling for yourself, practicing mindfulness or stress-reducing activities, and taking time for self-care activities.

Overall, it is essential to remember that each child with autism is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to treatment. Working with a professional and building a support system can help parents provide the best possible care for their child's needs.